Dreams of a sexy grey eyed dom

I have been re-reading 50 shades of grey over again. I want my husband to do these things to me. But I don't know how to tell him. He is so afraid of hurting me and I think that is really sweet (giving my very violent past and upbringing) but sometimes I just want him to throw me on the bed and fuck me into submission. Yank on my hair till I cry out. I want rough sex like I have never felt before. I want fucking on ever surface in the house. I want to feel a quiver when I think about it. But then I also want him to surprise me with gifts each day. Just to show he thinks of me. I want him to get tattoos with my name and say romantic things about how much he loves and cares for me. But until he gets the message I have my books ❤️